During the NFL off-season, most players spend time vacationing with their families, participating in charity golf tournaments, and renegotiating contracts. New York Jets wide receiver David Nelson does something a little different during his time away from the gridiron. In fact, a lot different!
After a life changing missions trip to Haiti in the spring of 2012, Nelson and his two brothers founded the orphan ministry I’m Me. The organization is raising up a generation of fatherless children to find their true identity in Christ, in the midst of a third world country suffering from destruction and hopelessness. He spends up to two months of the offseason in Haiti, and most of his free time stateside is spent running the organization, networking, speaking, and planning group trips.
“When we give them a hug, for some of them, it’s the only hug from a father figure they’ve gotten,” says Nelson. “I get emotional thinking about it. There are some talented, incredible children, but there’s no one helping them go to school. They’re thinking about getting food and having a place to sleep at night. They’ve never gotten to dream or think about what they want to be when they grow up.”
“My offseason used to consist of walks with my dog, golf, workouts and a lot of Xbox,” the 27-year-old Nelson admits. “Now, even during the season, this is my priority. James 1:27 was not a calling for me, it was a command. Most people say they feel called to do something, but in this situation, God was saying, ‘David this is what I have for you and for your life,’ and all he needed me to say was yes. For me this isn’t something I do for a hobby, this is my heart. This is why I was put on this earth.”
His commitment to I’m Me is clearly important, but it doesn’t overshadow what the 6-5 receiver is doing on the football field.
Nelson grew up playing football in the Lone Star State, and went on to play college ball at Florida with legendary quarterback Tim Tebow. In fact, it was Nelson that caught Tebow’s infamous jump pass in the end zone to win the 2009 BCS championship.
And while Nelson claims he was a surface Christian until that 2012 trip to Haiti, there is no doubt in his mind that Tebow helped water that seed of faith growing inside of his heart during his time at Florida.
“I was saved and baptized in the 8th grade during the typical church camp experience,” he shares. “My friends all went up to accept Christ, so I did too. It was an external thing for me though….I didn’t feel a change on the inside. I went to church, was in Bible studies, was involved in FCA…it all looked good on paper. I went to chapel during college, I had lunch with the team chaplain once a month, and everyone thought I was a good Christian guy, but it was a mask. I never had that heart change. God was good enough for me on Sunday mornings, God was good enough for me at Bible studies, but He wasn’t good enough for me to spend time with Him or know Him or dive deeper.”
Nelson shares that teammate Tebow took a special interest in him during college, and even invited him to tag along to a prison ministry. “The first time I went, it was really profound,” he shares. “I’d seen him in the locker room, in interviews, with his buddies, but I’d never seen him speaking in an environment like that. He was boldly proclaiming the name of Jesus to these people and it was fearlessly. You could feel the darkness in the room. He was probably only 21 years old at the time, and I’ll never forget it.”
Tebow continued to encourage him in his walk with the Lord. “It was never one of those things where Tim said, ‘hey you’re not living right,’ it was like, ‘I see something in you, I believe in you,’” he shares. “I thought it was annoying. I was so consumed with myself and what I wanted. When he said he believed in me, it struck my heart, but on the outside, my brain was saying, ‘I don’t want that yet.’ But that seed that he watered, blossomed during that Haiti trip in 2012.” During the trip, Nelson had a true heart change and internal transformation, and in his words, it was something straight out of Philippians 3:7: But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ.
“It was the first time I experienced something deeper,” he explains. “It was the true majestic love of our savior and it was through the eyes of a 4-year-old kid that really impacted me. It rocked my world. I got back from Haiti, and things I valued before the trip, no longer had any value to me. Money? I don’t need it. My paradigm shifted, and the veil was torn from my eyes for the first time.”
At the same time, on the football field during the fall of 2012, Nelson was poised to be the Bills’ top receiver. Just a few short years prior, in 2010, he had been an undrafted free agent fighting his way onto the roster. In 2011, he had an incredible season, becoming one of the main ingredients of the offense posting 61 receptions for 658 yards.
But everything came to a screeching halt during that first game of the 2012 season when he tore his ACL. It proved to be the biggest valley of his sports career.
“Having my entire season wiped away in one moment was tough,” he admits. “I was sitting in the locker room, and I was devastated. At that point, I wasn’t even sure if I would play again. I put my faith and trust in God about whether or not I’d make it back on the field. I grew so much deeper in my faith during that time. There were days just a few months after surgery that my knee just wasn’t responding like I thought it would. There’s always that aha afterwards, after the storm, though. I am so appreciative of it, because I was able to spend my free time during the season starting this ministry.”
But Nelson made it back onto the field, and while he was cut by the Browns during the 2013 preseason, teams started calling, and he eventually settled onto the Jets roster. He scrambled to make up for lost time, and ended up returning to his pre-injury form by the end of the season, posting 423 yards. “I wanted to pay [GM John Idzik and Rex Ryan] back for their belief in me, and for taking a chance on a player when not many other teams were,” he said at the time.
This time around, his two-year contract with the Jets is affording him the opportunity to have a full 2014 offseason with the Jets’ coaching staff and QB Geno Smith. And at the pace Nelson reached at the end of last season, there’s no doubt he’ll be ready to take the field this fall, make Jets fans proud, and continue to change lives in Haiti!
By Jenna Sampson